Strictly for Men - Accompanying
Women for Shopping
Edin Brow
Author,
Trainer
Shopping
seems to be fun when you have the right partner with you. Unfortunately, it is
bit tricky when you shop with a girl of your life. For a woman, shopping is a
fun, enjoyable moment, and stress buster. They are naturally boosted with
double the energy even with physical illness. But, it is totally the opposite
for majority of men. Don't worry gentlemen, we have the best tricks to solve
the case.
Money
Men
whose purses are fat don't worry much but to those who have the fear of being
emptied should consider few things which helps to save at least a minimal
amount. First of all, plan the budget and say that you can buy anything you
want in that budget. Don't worry about how she spends because she will surely
save something for her in that amount. Next, try to withdraw certain amount in
cash and keep it for safety. If you are keeping it in purse try to split the
money and put it in different places in purse as well as in your pockets. It
will seem funny but surely more than
60% of your money will be unused. Don't be too intelligent and withdraw all the
money so that you could save your balance.
Always girls know your worth and they have
their accurate measuring scale. Don't try the same trick always. Be careful in
choosing and adapting to situations. There may be various other ways but you
have to spend cautiously. Always remember that whatever amount you have, it is
not enough for a woman's shopping. Satisfying her desire in shopping is more
important than purchasing in shopping. You have to spend on the exact item
which she likes if not you purse will be empty. Let's move on to selection of
items.
Selection
The
heart of shopping is in selection. It may be the dress, jewellery, accessories,
culinary or household items and the list goes on. Point to be noted is that it
changes based on times, season, climate and sometimes it depends on friends,
neighbours and adversaries. Hey, wait, wait, I am loaded with thousands of
thoughts. I can’t say everything, but to say in nutshell "The list is
endless".
Ok,
let's see shopping with your woman now.
You need to be careful in giving comments and suggestions while
accompanying your woman. It gives the opportunity to know each other's taste
and how you adjust to help each other. There may be contradiction but be wise
in giving suggestions. Honest replies sometimes work but most of the time it
backfires. For instance, if your girl likes green color then try suggesting few
shades of green and blending colours. Always think twice before you give open
comments. Try to say genuinely that this colour or design would suits you
better. This looks nice and this look good but try other options too. Say
something which helps her to come to conclusion so that your shopping doesn't
prolong. You can’t please completely but it helps you to run the show. At last,
it all depends on what your women chooses. Your selection wins sometimes but
not all the time.
Time
When
we consider the time, sorry dear don't consider time when you go for shopping
with a woman. She have lots of time for shopping, if possible she continues
even overnight if shops and malls are open. It would be pleasing for most of
the men when they hear an announcement that it is the closing time. There is
also much joy when your woman says, "Shall we go home?" Don't say yes
immediately, rather say that you plan to purchase something. Then say
"ok" let’s go home even I am little tired (Don't say totally tired
even if you feel so). Don't ask me why, but experience the feeling and if
possible let me know through your comments.
Miscellaneous
There
are lots of other topics to deal but it would be too boring if we continue
looking into that one by one. Let me put everything in a nutshell. Woman needs
your suggestions and ideas in selection of dresses and home decors. She doesn't
expect your advice on her cosmetics and accessories. She accepts the
compliments but not the selection. To say plainly, our selection is not so good
as they do in those stuff. When it comes to jewellery, you have a major part to
play in narrowing down the design based on model and price. Keep aside the
selection from your woman one by one. Don't gather all but keep the first
selection and the selection which she tries long. Narrowing down help to choose
the best. Culinary items are essential and be conscious in picking the daily
use items rather than rare usage.
Shopping
is an entertainment when you shop with a person who has the same taste. Women
love the company of woman when they go for shopping. Even in those shopping
there are certain issues which only women know. When a woman goes with her man
for shopping, she mostly observes, studies, judges, and evaluates him with her
own yardstick.
I
remember one of the shopping moments at Sydney Australia, where I accompanied
my friend and was waiting near the entrance of the shop for our woman to
return. After some time, there was one more gentleman who joined the waiter's
club. We made a discussion and said let's see who's woman returns first.
Unfortunately my woman came the last but I knew well that she wouldn't buy
anything without my company in that shop. I had already glanced the whole shop
before she went inside and found out that there was no collection of her taste
and colour and yet I knew she will be doing window shopping. Most of the time
window shopping is better to decide later. If there is a real need then you can
buy without any hesitation.
Shopping
for women is a stress buster. It is also an energizer. Often you have to take
her for shopping to make her feel good. She may not buy all the time but she
needs to do shopping at least once in a week. If she feels good shopping with
you then life become so sweet and you will see the magic in life. Men will
always be men and women will always be women but there are times when both can
become one if they have real understanding between each other. Shopping makes
you healthy and tests your stamina at times. Be healthy and enjoy shopping with
your lady.
